THERAPY & COUNSELLING

Compassionate Inquiry by Dr. Gabor Maté

Compassionate Inquiry® is a psychotherapeutic approach created by Dr. Gabor Maté over several decades while working with both patients and retreat participants. This approach gently uncovers and releases the layers of childhood trauma, constriction and suppressed emotion embedded in the body, that are at the root of mental and physical illness and addiction.

When clients perceive the therapeutic relationship as a safe container, compassion and curiosity allow them to acknowledge and examine the traumatic events that happened to them as children, recognize the beliefs they internalized, and feel the emotions they suppressed. This contributes to the healing process.  

Using Compassionate Inquiry, both the individual and therapist unveil the level of consciousness, mental climate, hidden assumptions, implicit memories and body states that form the real message that words both express and conceal.

When we can release ourselves from the hold of these stories, a new way of being emerges, leading to spontaneity, choice, expansion and freedom.

  • Accept and understand yourself better 
  • Connect with yourself more authentically – your feelings, sensations, and states
  • Understand better your interpretations 
  • Express what is significant to you in the present moment.
  • Connect to your body 
  • Learn to trust your instincts and intuition once again.

“The purpose of Compassionate Inquiry is to drill down to the core stories people tell themselves – to get us to see (hear) what story we are telling ourselves unconsciously; what our beliefs are, where they came from; and to point to the possibility of letting go of those stories, or letting go of the hold they have on us…”

– DR. GABOR MATÉ

Improve Your Relationships

Therapy can help you develop healthier ways of communicating and relating to others. Whether you tend to avoid difficult conversations, struggle to express your needs, or become overwhelmed during conflict, therapy can help you understand these patterns and develop new ways of responding. The goal is not to communicate perfectly, but to feel more confident, clear, and connected in your relationships.

Navigate Conflict with Greater Ease

Healthy relationships require the ability to express your needs, set boundaries, and navigate differences without losing yourself in the process. Therapy can help you explore how you respond to conflict and develop ways of communicating that are more direct, grounded, and respectful — both towards yourself and others.

Reconnect with Yourself

Therapy offers an opportunity to understand yourself more deeply — your emotions, thoughts, bodily responses, experiences, and patterns of behaviour. By becoming more aware of what is happening within you, you can begin to understand what may be keeping you stuck and create space for meaningful change.

Live with Greater Awareness

Therapy can help you become more conscious of the patterns that shape the way you think, feel, and behave. As you develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your experiences, you may begin to make choices that are more aligned with your needs, values, and sense of self.

Build Healthier Connections

Our relationships are often shaped by patterns we may not fully recognise. Therapy can help you explore how you communicate, relate, attach, set boundaries, and respond to the people around you. Greater self-awareness can create the foundation for more authentic and fulfilling connections with partners, family, friends, and others.

Break Free from Repetitive Patterns

Sometimes, we find ourselves repeating thoughts, emotional responses, or behaviours even when we know they are no longer serving us. Therapy provides a space to understand where these patterns come from, what maintains them, and how they affect your life. With greater awareness and self-compassion, it becomes possible to develop new ways of responding and move towards meaningful change.

TRE® Tension & Trauma Release Exercises

Developed by Dr. David Berceli, PhD, TRE™ (Tension & Trauma Releasing Exercises) is a body-based method that uses a series of simple exercises to help release accumulated physical tension and stress. At the centre of the practice is the body’s natural shaking or trembling response, which is gradually introduced through a sequence of exercises and explored in a safe and supportive environment.

The method is based on the idea that stress and overwhelming experiences can be reflected not only in our thoughts and emotions, but also in the body. By bringing gentle attention to bodily sensations and allowing the body’s natural responses to unfold, TRE™ aims to support relaxation, greater body awareness, and nervous system regulation.

The exercises are accessible and do not require any particular level of physical fitness. The practice is adapted to each person’s individual needs and capacity, with an emphasis on pacing, self-awareness, and maintaining a sense of safety and control throughout the process.

TRE™ can be practised as a standalone body-based approach or as a complement to psychotherapy and other therapeutic modalities. It may be particularly useful for people experiencing ongoing stress, physical tension, difficulty relaxing, or a sense of being disconnected from their bodies.

As with any body-based practice, individual experiences can vary. TRE™ is not intended to replace medical or psychological treatment when such care is needed, but may be used alongside it as part of a broader approach to wellbeing and self-regulation.

Under the guidance of an experienced and certified TRE® facilitator, you will be introduced to a series of gentle physical exercises in a calm, supportive, and safe environment. The exercises gradually engage the body and may lead to involuntary shaking or trembling — a natural response that can vary in intensity from person to person.

Throughout the session, we pay attention to your bodily sensations and responses, allowing you to explore the practice at your own pace. The emphasis is on developing greater body awareness, staying connected to your sense of safety, and learning to recognise and regulate your own responses.

There is no right or wrong way to experience TRE®. Each person responds differently, and each session may feel different. Coming with curiosity and without expectations allows you to discover what the practice has to offer while remaining attentive to your own boundaries and needs.

TRE® is practised by people from a wide range of backgrounds, including first responders, military personnel, and others who experience high levels of physical and emotional stress. Many people describe their experience of TRE® using words such as “grounded,” “relaxed,” and “calmer.”

The shaking and trembling that occur during TRE® are often experienced as gentle and soothing, although each person’s response is unique. For some, the practice can create a sense of physical release and relaxation, while regular practice may support greater body awareness, emotional regulation, and a greater sense of inner balance.

TRE® has been explored and used as a complementary body-based approach in relation to stress, anxiety, sleep difficulties, trauma-related experiences, and other challenges involving physical and emotional tension. Individual responses vary, and TRE® is not intended to replace appropriate medical or psychological care. Rather, it can be integrated into a broader therapeutic process as a way of supporting relaxation, self-regulation, and a more connected relationship with the body.

  • High-risk pregnancy, high blood pressure, cardiac arrhythmia, or a pacemaker
  • Unhealed fractures or muscle sprains
  • Medical surgery within the past 3 months
  • Epilepsy, schizophrenia, or bipolar disorder

Transactional Analysis (TA)

Transactional Analysis (TA) is a psychotherapeutic approach developed by Eric Berne in the 1950s. It provides a clear framework for understanding human behaviour and relationships by exploring the patterns of communication and interaction — known as transactions — between people.

TA can help you recognise patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that may have developed early in life and continue to influence the way you relate to yourself and others. By bringing these patterns into awareness, it becomes possible to develop more flexible and conscious ways of responding.

The approach can be particularly useful for exploring relationship difficulties, communication patterns, recurring interpersonal dynamics, and psychological games. It supports greater self-awareness, more authentic communication, and the development of healthier and more satisfying ways of relating to others.

Working with a psychotherapist through Transactional Analysis can help you:

  1. Understand Your Ego States
    Develop a deeper understanding of the Parent, Adult, and Child ego states, and how they influence the way you think, feel, and relate to others.
  2. Explore Your Life Script
    Recognise patterns and beliefs that may have developed early in life and continue to shape your choices, relationships, and responses in the present.
  3. Improve Communication
    Become more aware of the ways you communicate and develop more direct, conscious, and effective ways of relating to others.
  4. Recognise Psychological Games
    Identify recurring interpersonal patterns and psychological games, and explore alternative ways of responding that support healthier and more authentic relationships.
  5. Develop Greater Self-Awareness
    Gain a deeper understanding of your inner world, emotional responses, and relational patterns, supporting greater flexibility, emotional maturity, and personal growth.

Hypnotherapy

Hypnotherapy is a therapeutic approach that uses focused attention, relaxation, and the heightened responsiveness of hypnosis to support meaningful psychological change. It can help you access aspects of your inner experience that may be difficult to reach through conscious reflection alone, while remaining aware, engaged, and in control throughout the process.

In my work, I draw on two complementary dimensions of hypnotherapy. The first is the use of carefully chosen therapeutic suggestions and imagery to support changes in emotional states, beliefs, habits, and patterns of behaviour. Rather than simply trying to “think differently,” this work creates an opportunity to engage with the deeper, more automatic processes that shape how we experience ourselves and the world.

The second dimension is hypnoanalytic work — an exploratory process that can help bring greater awareness to the experiences, emotions, memories, and internal patterns underlying present-day difficulties. Sometimes, what keeps us stuck is not a lack of understanding, but the fact that certain experiences have never been fully processed, integrated, or given meaning.

I approach this work gently and collaboratively. There is no pressure to remember something, relive an experience, or go deeper than feels safe and appropriate. The therapeutic process follows your pace and capacity, with an emphasis on safety, curiosity, compassion, and choice.

Hypnotherapy can therefore become more than a tool for symptom relief. It can offer an opportunity to reconnect with inner resources, develop greater self-understanding, integrate previously disconnected parts of the self, and create more freedom in the way you think, feel, and respond.

My approach is informed by the understanding that meaningful change is not simply about getting rid of unwanted symptoms. It is also about becoming more fully connected with yourself — including those parts of your experience that may have been difficult to acknowledge or accept. In this sense, the work resonates with Jung’s concept of integrating the shadow and with Carl Rogers’ view of psychological growth as a movement towards greater authenticity and self-actualisation.

The aim is not to become someone different, but to develop greater freedom to become more fully yourself.

  • During hypnosis, you will typically experience a state of deep relaxation combined with focused attention. You remain aware of what is happening and can communicate or respond whenever you need to.
  • As the session unfolds, you may notice different thoughts, emotions, memories, images, bodily sensations, or other inner experiences. There is no particular experience you need to have — each person responds to hypnosis in their own way.
  • You are never required to speak aloud about anything you would rather keep private. Depending on the therapeutic approach and your preferences, we may work with what arises internally without needing to put everything into words.
  • After the session, you may remember everything clearly, some parts, or very little of what occurred. The experience of hypnosis varies from person to person, and remembering less does not necessarily mean that the session was more or less effective.
  • Throughout our work together, you can expect professionalism, respect, and a confidential and supportive therapeutic environment. The process is collaborative, and you remain in control of your experience at every stage.

Changing Habits and Addictive Patterns

Hypnotherapy can support people who want to change habits or behaviours that no longer serve them. It may be used as part of a broader approach to smoking cessation and can also support changes in patterns related to food, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, and other behaviours. Meaningful change is more likely when hypnotherapy is combined with personal motivation, awareness, and a willingness to engage with the underlying emotional and behavioural patterns.

Stress and Anxiety

Hypnosis can provide a deeply relaxing experience and can be a useful tool for developing greater awareness of how stress is experienced in the body and mind. Therapeutic hypnosis may support relaxation, emotional regulation, and the development of new ways of responding to stress and anxiety.

Confidence, Motivation, and Personal Growth

Hypnotherapy can help you explore the beliefs, expectations, and internal patterns that influence how you see yourself and approach challenges. By working with these patterns, you may develop greater confidence, motivation, self-trust, and clarity about the direction you want to take in your life.

Fears and Phobias

Fear and phobias can significantly restrict a person’s sense of freedom. Hypnotherapy can be used to explore the emotional and learned responses underlying fear and to develop new associations and ways of responding. Depending on the issue, this work may be integrated with other therapeutic approaches and does not necessarily require repeatedly revisiting a difficult experience in detail.

Anxiety, Panic, and Depressive Experiences

Hypnotherapy may complement psychotherapy in working with anxiety, panic, and depressive experiences. It can provide a space to explore habitual thought patterns, self-criticism, emotional responses, and deeply learned beliefs, while supporting the development of greater self-compassion and more flexible ways of responding.

Support During Fertility Challenges

The process of trying to conceive can be emotionally demanding, particularly when it involves uncertainty, prolonged stress, or medical interventions. Hypnotherapy may offer a supportive space for relaxation, emotional regulation, and coping with the psychological aspects of this experience. It is important to view this as complementary support rather than a treatment for infertility itself, and it should not replace appropriate medical care.

Psychological Counselling

Psychological counselling is a collaborative process that offers space to explore current difficulties, gain a deeper understanding of yourself, and develop new ways of coping with life’s challenges. It can help you strengthen your inner resources, make sense of your experiences, and create the conditions for personal and professional growth.

At the beginning of counselling, we focus on the concerns that are affecting your emotional wellbeing, relationships, or quality of life. Together, we explore how you think, feel, and respond to different situations, as well as the circumstances and experiences that may trigger particular reactions.

As the work progresses, we look more closely at the patterns underlying your thoughts, emotions, and behaviour. This can help you understand where certain reactions come from, what keeps them in place, and how they may be affecting your life in the present.

From there, we work collaboratively to develop more flexible and adaptive ways of responding — to yourself, to other people, and to the challenges you encounter.

Counselling can help you develop greater self-awareness, emotional resilience, and more flexible ways of thinking and responding. Over time, this can support you in navigating both current and future challenges with greater confidence, clarity, and emotional balance.

The aim is not simply to cope better with difficulties, but to develop a deeper understanding of yourself and a stronger sense of choice in how you respond to life.

Psycho-Oncology

Psycho-oncology is a specialised field that focuses on the psychological and emotional aspects of living with cancer. It integrates psychological support into cancer care, addressing the needs of people with cancer, their loved ones, and, where appropriate, the healthcare professionals involved in their care.

Psycho-oncology can support people in coping with the emotional impact of diagnosis, treatment, and uncertainty about the future. It also provides space to explore how cancer may affect relationships, family dynamics, identity, and everyday life.

The aim is not only to help people navigate the challenges that come with cancer, but also to support their emotional wellbeing, sense of connection, and ability to cope throughout the different stages of the experience.

Emotional Support
A space to process the emotional impact of diagnosis, treatment, uncertainty, and the challenges that can accompany cancer.

Supporting Quality of Life
Psychological support can help address anxiety, low mood, distress, and other emotional difficulties, while supporting overall emotional wellbeing and quality of life.

Managing Stress and Emotional Distress
Developing practical and personalised ways of coping with stress, fear, uncertainty, and emotional tension throughout the cancer journey.

Preserving Meaning and Dignity
Supporting a sense of meaning, identity, connection, and dignity, particularly during periods when illness may affect a person’s sense of self and future.

Support for Families and Loved Ones
Helping family members understand and navigate their own emotional responses, communicate more effectively, and support their loved one while also taking care of themselves.

Coping with Difficult Moments and Decisions
Providing a supportive space for processing difficult news, navigating uncertainty, and working through emotionally challenging decisions and transitions.

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